The Importance of Options:
Your #1 Priority in Life
Life is scary.
Whether you’re just starting out or have been at it for a while, there’s a nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach, a sense that you’re never fully safe.
You’re constantly worried about the future, unsure of what’s coming next, and you might feel like you’re always one step away from disaster.
You’re not alone.
Most people feel this way, even if they don’t talk about it.
And here’s the hard truth: life doesn’t get easier.
It never stops changing, evolving, and throwing curveballs your way.
You might be tempted to wish for simpler times—when things were easier, when you didn’t have so many responsibilities, or when the world wasn’t so complicated.
But the truth is, that’s a pipe dream.
The only constant in life is change.
And if you’re not ready for it, if you’re clinging to the hope that things will stabilize and get easier, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
A Life With Limited Options
Think about it.
How often have you felt trapped?
Maybe it’s in a dead-end job, a toxic relationship, or a financial mess.
Maybe it’s just the suffocating routine of daily life that feels like it’s slowly crushing your spirit.
The common thread in all these situations is a lack of options.
When you don’t have options, life feels like a prison.
You’re stuck, unable to move forward or sideways, and you’re at the mercy of forces beyond your control.
It’s like being a leaf in the wind, tossed around with no say in where you end up.
You feel powerless because, in many ways, you are.
Without options, you have no leverage, no way to negotiate a better deal with life.
You’re a passive participant, reacting to whatever comes your way instead of taking charge and shaping your own destiny.
The world we live in is unpredictable
Jobs that seemed secure one day disappear the next.
Markets crash.
Technology disrupts entire industries overnight.
Personal relationships can crumble without warning.
And amidst all this chaos, you’re expected to not only survive but thrive.
It’s a tall order, and if you’re not prepared, it can feel overwhelming, even hopeless.
In Case of Emergency: Break Glass
When I got started in construction, I was a fire alarm tech.
We were in charge of the building’s life safety system, everything including the smoke detectors, pull stations, bells and horns, all the way to monitoring the sprinkler lines and smoke evacuations fans.
There’s a lot to it and you most of the time you never notice it, unless someone pulls that pull station or there is a fire drill.
It’s sitting there in the background as a safe option so people don’t die.
Your life is like that, everything is going well until it isn’t.
What are you going to do?
So, what’s the answer?
The key isn’t to wish for life to be simpler or to hope that things will stop changing.
The key is to always be growing and acquiring options that give you the ability to deal with whatever life throws your way.
Your number one priority in life, especially if you’re just getting started, should be to acquire assets, resources, networks, skills, and abilities that give you more and more options.
Why options?
Because options are power.
Options are freedom.
When you have options, you’re not trapped in a job you hate.
You’re not stuck in a toxic relationship.
You’re not a victim of circumstance.
You have the ability to choose, to pivot, to adapt.
And in an ever-changing world, that’s the greatest asset you can have.
Let’s break it down:
- Assets: Start building your financial foundation as early as possible. This could mean saving and investing, buying property, or starting a side hustle. Assets give you financial security, which translates into the ability to make decisions without the constant pressure of money. When you have financial assets, you’re not forced to take the first job that comes your way, or to stay in a job that makes you miserable because you need the paycheck.
- Resources: Resources go beyond money. They include time, energy, and access to information. Learn to manage your time effectively, conserve your energy for things that matter, and seek out information that can help you make better decisions. The more resources you have at your disposal, the more flexible and adaptable you become.
- Networks: Your network is your net worth. Surround yourself with people who can support, guide, and open doors for you. Build relationships with mentors, peers, and professionals who have the experience and connections that you don’t. A strong network provides opportunities that you wouldn’t have access to on your own and can be a lifeline when you’re navigating unfamiliar territory.
- Skills: In today’s world, skills are currency. The more skills you have, the more valuable you become. Whether it’s technical skills, soft skills, or industry-specific knowledge, constantly be learning and improving. Skills give you the ability to pivot when needed, to take on new challenges, and to stay relevant in a rapidly changing world.
- Talent: Talent are the unique abilities and strengths that set you apart. They’re the things you can do that others can’t. Cultivate your talent and leverage them to create opportunities that align with your passions and goals. The more you develop your talent, the more options you create for yourself.
When you focus on acquiring these five pillars—assets, resources, networks, skills, and talent—you start to create a life with more and more options.
And with more options, you gain control.
Control over your career, your relationships, your time, and ultimately, your happiness.
Let’s face it: life isn’t going to get easier.
The world will continue to change, sometimes in ways that are unpredictable and even frightening.
But if you make it your mission to always be growing, always acquiring options, you’ll be ready for whatever comes your way.
You won’t just survive in this ever-changing world—you’ll thrive.
So how do you start?
Here are some actionable steps you can take today:
- Start Investing Early: Even if you’re just starting out, make it a priority to save and invest a portion of your income. Whether it’s through a 401(k), an IRA, or simply putting money into a diversified portfolio, the earlier you start, the more you’ll benefit from compound interest over time. This is your first step in acquiring financial assets that give you freedom and options.
- Learn a High-Demand Skill: Identify a skill that’s in high demand in your industry and start learning it. Whether it’s coding, digital marketing, data analysis, or a trade, gaining expertise in a valuable skill will make you more marketable and give you leverage in your career.
- Build Your Network: Start attending industry events, joining online communities, and reaching out to people you admire. Networking isn’t just about what others can do for you; it’s about building mutually beneficial relationships. Offer help, share knowledge, and be genuine. Over time, your network will become one of your greatest assets.
- Diversify Your Income Streams: Don’t rely on just one source of income. Look for ways to diversify, whether it’s through a side hustle, freelance work, or passive income streams. The more sources of income you have, the more options you’ll have if one dries up.
- Invest in Personal Development: Never stop learning. Read books, take courses, attend seminars, and invest in your growth. The more you know, the more options you have. Personal development is an investment in your future self, and it pays dividends in the form of increased confidence, competence, and resilience.
- Practice Flexibility: Learn to embrace change rather than fear it. Flexibility is a skill that can be developed. Practice adapting to new situations, experimenting with different approaches, and being open to change. The more flexible you become, the more options you’ll have in dealing with life’s uncertainties.
- Cultivate Relationships: Strong relationships are a cornerstone of a successful and fulfilling life. Invest time and effort into building and maintaining relationships with family, friends, colleagues, and mentors. These relationships will provide support, guidance, and opportunities throughout your life.
- Stay Informed: Knowledge is power. Stay informed about trends in your industry, developments in technology, and changes in the economy. The more you know about the world around you, the better you can anticipate changes and position yourself to take advantage of new opportunities.
- Be Strategic: Make decisions with the long term in mind. Don’t just focus on short-term gains or immediate gratification. Think about how your actions today will affect your options tomorrow. Being strategic means considering the bigger picture and making choices that align with your goals and values.
- Take Calculated Risks: Don’t be afraid to take risks, but make sure they’re calculated. Weigh the potential rewards against the possible downsides, and always have a backup plan. Taking risks is often necessary to create new options, but being reckless can lead to losing the options you already have.
As you build these pillars, you’ll find that life becomes less intimidating.
You’ll still face challenges, uncertainties, and setbacks, but you’ll also have the confidence to navigate them.
You’ll know that no matter what happens, you have options.
And with options comes power—the power to choose your path, the power to adapt, and the power to thrive in an ever-changing world.
Your Call to Action
So here’s your challenge: Start today.
Don’t wait for the perfect moment or the right opportunity.
Begin building the assets, resources, networks, skills, and talent that will give you options in life.
Because when you have options, you’re not just surviving—you’re living on your own terms.
The world isn’t going to get easier.
But you can get stronger, smarter, and more prepared.
Your number one priority should be to acquire the options that will give you the freedom to live the life you want, no matter what the future holds.